Dog mom’s angry reaction to husband adopting pup just weeks after losing her soul dog subsides as the puppy: ‘ looks exactly like Roxy, it's like reliving Roxy's puppyhood and being given a second opportunity to furnish her with the same amount of love.’

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    My German Shepherd dog (Roxy) recently passed away at 11 years old. Towards the end I was carrying her from room to room
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    and one morning I woke up to find that she had passed away during her sleep. Even though I knew that she was getting old and
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    eventually she would die, her death hit me extremely hard. I cried for days and on took over my life. I still worked, went to the gym, etc., but I
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    sometimes would forget to eat or shower in the morning and my husband would make sure to remind me. I became visibly
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    skinnier but I still managed to show myself as happy and full of life when I went out with my friends or just went out in general. They
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    did ask me if I was okay because I had just lost my dog but I would always put a smile on and reply with "I'm okay because I know she's
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    german shepherd lying in a park on grass
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    up in dog heaven' or something similar. Only my husband saw my dee side and he was concerned all the
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    time and tried to cheer me up by using his great sense of humor, one of the best qualities about him. He even brought over a 7
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    week old German Shepherd puppy (who looked exactly like how Roxy did when she was 2 months old) from one of his friends
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    whose female dog had given birth 7 weeks ago and he must have seen the joy on my face when I played and cuddled with the puppy.
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    Roxy passed away 3 weeks ago and the visit from the puppy was 1.5 weeks ago. 4 days ago I went on a 2 day work trip. When I returned
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    home, I was greeted by the same puppy that my husband had brought 8 days ago. My husband came to me with a huge smile on his
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    face and asked how was my trip and everything. All I could focus on was the puppy and I asked him what was the puppy doing
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    here? He smiled even more and said that he saw how much I loved the puppy so he bought her for $5,600 at a discount from his
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    friend as a present to me. I immediately asked him "Why would you do this? You know I'm not over Roxy, but you wanted to
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    bring another puppy like Roxy can just be replaced like that??" And I went to the bedroom and slammed the door and burst into tears.
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    The puppy had followed me but I had closed the door before she could come in and she was scratching the door. My husband told me
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    that he was sorry but he thought this is what I wanted. I yelled at him that he should have asked me first and
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    german shepherd head tilted in a garden
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    to just leave me alone. I know that his intentions were good and he wanted me to be happy, but I loved Roxy like she
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    was my daughter. I've had her since I was in high school and she's been my rock and support throughout every hardship. She was also my protector
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    who saved me from possible dangers, specifically from men. Even though she was a female dog, she was still very frightening when in ack mode
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    and her protection work was top-notch. I was still grieving and wasn't ready to connect with another dog. The next day I told my
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    husband that I was sorry for my breakdown and that I was just still going through the grieving process. He forgave me, but he is still visibly upset at me. I
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    wanted him to return the puppy but I feel so guilty for yelling at him and that he spent so much money that I decided to keep the puppy.
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    Update So I kept the puppy, but not out of guilt. Someone mentioned that the same thing happened to them
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    but the new puppy was able to help them through the grieving process and that's exactly what is happening. The new puppy has brought me so much joy and
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    love over the past few days and because she looks exactly like Roxy did when she was the same age, it's like reliving Roxy's puppyhood and
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    being given a second opportunity to furnish her with the same amount of love. I wanted to name her Roxy but I
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    decided to go with 'Althea' which means "healing" and I think it's the perfect name for her. I have apologized to my husband again for
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    yelling at him and reacting the way I did when he meant well. He said that he understood that I was grieving and that dogs can't be replaced like cars, that he should have
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    consulted with me first before bringing in a live puppy that requires a colossal amount of care.

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